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Andra Watkins's avatar

Given where you live and what you do, I understand your approach and don't condemn it. I guess I'd like to see more people saying, "Do what you need to do." As someone who has endured over two decades of abuse at the hands of 45 voters in my life, who has tried every conceivable thing to bridge the gap, who has denied myself and my needs time and again in favor of "keeping the peace" and "getting along", I don't call it "privilege" to cut them off. I call it "protecting my mental and emotional health." If only the privileged get to protect their mental and emotional health in the US, which seems likely, then I guess I'm privileged.

I'm not completely unfeeling. I don't want to watch anyone suffer and don't advocate for denying anyone aid. I prefer to watch them get everything they voted for and let a few of them come to me and say they were wrong. I can work with that.

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Melissa Walker's avatar

I agree Emily. As tempting as it is, cutting off my contact with Trump voters (besides being unrealistic), will only add to the divisiveness. The only way to heal rifts is through contact and conversation, as uncomfortable as that often is.

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